The Fullness of May

The month of May is always full … of flowers, and rain, and a lift in the step of folks who have been longing for warmer weather.


  For me, it is also filled with planning and implementing the Ride of Silence and the Annual Memorial Day Service.

It is such an honor to work alongside others in remembrance of those who have died in the service of the US, or on our public roads.


Despite the full schedule, there is still time for book group.  I read late into the night on Wednesday in order to be prepared for our Thursday discussion.  We met on the new porch, surrounded by flowers made even more beautiful by the late day sun.


Have you read “How to Tell Toledo From the Night Sky” by Lydia Netzer?

Life is ever full … of friends, of flowers, of books, and service, and I am thankful.

Dear Opl: I Love You

My kind and generous friend Alys, of Gardening Nirvana wrote a lovely post about incredibly talented Shelley from Peak Perspective, and about Shelley’s new book, Dear Opl!  Please, please read this post to learn more about both of these women that I am blessed to call friend.

Gardening Nirvana

dear Opl-001My pre-ordered copies of Dear Opl arrived this week. It was great fun opening the box. I finally had my hands on this gem of a book, penned by Shelley Sackier of Peak Perspective.

My 15-year-old son asked why I ordered so many copies. “Because I know the author,” I gushed, to which he replied, “Yeah, but why do you need so many copies of the same book?”

More about that in a bit.

I discovered Shelley’s blog a few years ago and quickly became a fan. She’s an extraordinary writer, who weaves humor and smarts into a variety of essays published weekly. When I belly up to my computer and settle in for a good read, I know I’ll be entertained. I’m also there to learn. Each week I try to absorb that special something that makes her an engaging writer. When my blog grows up it wants…

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More Than Book Group

A group of friends, and lovers of books, has been meeting in my home once a month for the past 13 years.  As many as 18 and as few as 4 have gathered to discuss the month’s chosen book, after which the conversation turns to movies, current events, and life.  We’ve gone “off site” to watch plays, such as The Vagina Monologues, to search for authentic Chinese Food, and to taste wine.

And sometimes we’re able to meet on the porch.


5 Days ’til Vacation and the Annual Ride!!!


It’s Nice to be Home

As much as I love to hit the road and explore new places, having traveled the last 5 of 7 weekends, I was missing what my friend Debbie calls “bonding with your house”.  

I missed the baking and cooking …

Chicken Salad for a friend’s birthday


Buttermilk Cheddar Biscuits for a couple other friends on Father’s Day


The potting and planting …




I can never have enough basil!


The time for photography …

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Time to catch up on reading and blogging … currently reading Born To Run by Christopher McDougall


And even the time for cleaning and laundry (but you don’t need to see a photo of that now do you?).

Of course, there was time to call my father …

This is my father, mother, and me at our annual Mothers Day / Fathers Day Dinner 2 weeks ago


and this is Daddy, the most amazing father, back in the 70s.  He is now Captain USN, Retired


If I’m lucky and it doesn’t rain, I’ll get some time on the bike …


Yes, traveling and exploring are two of my most favorite things to do … but staying home isn’t bad at all.

Day 2 – Richmond: A Bookstore Manager’s Suspicion

After a most excellent meeting , I found myself with 4, count ’em, FOUR, hours to myself!  Amazing!

Knowing that I would have time tomorrow to look at some of Richmond’s older architecture and shop in non-chain stores, I decided to use this time to get some work done.  I located a huge bookstore complete with free wifi and delicious unsweet tea.  After purchasing the obligatory book (obligatory because I can’t ever walk into a book store and not buy at least buy one book), I sat down to work.

Sure enough, I was soon distracted by the sun shining through the big windows and on the various objects around me.  I wandered the book store for an hour or so, shooting whatever caught my eye.  I guess I attracted attention because the very nice store manager came up, introduced  himself and informed me that the store did not allow photography without corporate permission.  I explained that I was an amateur photographer and was practicing indoor shooting.  I then showed him my pictures and offered to delete.  He looked at them, was incredibly kind and said no problem – keep them.

Yeah, I’m not impressed with them either!  haha!


Nah, they aren’t that bad  … and his gracious attitude will be what I carry with me from that store (besides the mystery that I will read at night after long days in my upcoming conference).

Classroom Decorations


Casting Shadows





Plastic Wrapped Bibles

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Through The Shade Brightly



How lucky I am to travel, explore and meet with dear friends!


What a great way to end Day 2!

The Search for Authentic Chinese Food in SWVA

The Last Chinese Chef by Nicole Mones ( offered the members of our book group an opportunity to venture out in search of an authentic Chinese meal.  As we read our way through the book, most of us began dreaming about some of the foods that Ms. Mones had written about.  She tantalized us with her descriptions of Pork Spare Ribs in Lotus Leaves, Eight Treasure Dongpo Pork, and Beggar’s Chicken.  We originally thought we might make our own meal or bring Chinese Take Out to the discussion, but Karen and Janet suggested we seek out an authentic meal at a local Chinese restaurant.

Many large cities have restaurants that serve authentic Chinese food, but most Westerners are more used to American Chinese food.  According to Mones, Chinese chefs find that “American tastes” dictate that “Chinese-style dishes be prepared with a limited range of pre-mixed sauces, usually no more than 5 – 7 per restaurant”.  The “American taste” has “evolved into a cuisine whose flavors are always reliable and already well known to the Western diner” whereas “Chinese taste” means dishes are prepared from scratch, no two alike.  American taste demands sameness; Chinese taste showcases diversity and complexity. (

Many of us were enchanted by other aspects of Chinese cooking – the thought, history and theme put into each meal; the focus on community and companionship, and the freshness and texture of ingredients.  Of our group, only two had traveled to China, and most of us had not had the opportunity to enjoy a truly authentic meal.  In hopes of finding such a meal, we were referred to the owners of Charlie’s Chinese in downtown Christiansburg, a town with a population of 21,000 in Southwest Virginia.

Karen made the arrangements, noting that the owners were very excited that we wanted to partake of an authentic Chinese meal.

14 of us gathered around a large table, with a “lazy susan” in the middle.


First, some of us (me) had to learn how to use chopsticks.


Then we learned how to fill our pancakes.


We were served a large variety of dishes including Spring Rolls, Spicy Beef, Shrimp in Sweet Sauce, Chicken, Tofu, Duck, 5 Spice Soup, Crispy Garlic Green Beans, Bok Choy and a Whole Fish (bass).


Several members of the group took time to share their thoughts about the evening.  Cindy commented that the sense of community and friendship that we enjoyed while sitting around a large table seemed consistent with what we had learned about Chinese tradition.


Janet noted that what seemed most authentic about the meal was that the fish was served as a whole and that the green beans and bok choy were each cooked as individual dishes, rather than marrying them with meats.  Debbie enjoyed the family type gathering and especially liked watching our individual reactions to the dishes.

There was quite a variety of dishes and one less positive note was that they came out rapidly.  Those present would have liked more opportunity to learn about each individual dish and to savor the different tastes and textures.  As it was, the initial conversation with the owners had occurred just 5 days before the event with our final RSVP coming in one day ahead.  Perhaps if we had given them more time to prepare or we had arrived earlier in the evening, the dishes would not have had to come to the table so quickly.



The joy and enthusiasm of our gracious host was another treat.  Carol commented that she very much seemed to enjoy teaching us about Chinese food and she encouraged us many times to come again.

Several book group members wrote to tell me that they would indeed return again.  Heather was glad to know that if she wanted to enjoy the delicious whole fish again she would need to call 5 hours ahead.  The picture below shows the remains of a lovely meal and evening.

Karen thought the book was a wonderful look into the Chinese culture through its food, while Molly enjoyed the parts that were set in the past, particularly the letters written by the relatives of the characters in the book.  I enjoyed reading about the history of cooking and the excerpts from the fictional 1925 culinary masterpiece, also called The Last Chinese Chef.

NPR Weekend Edition’s Liane Hanson noted that the book explores “Chinese culinary history, language and tantalizing descriptions of fine cuisine” and that “Mones shows how food can both nourish the body and the soul. Her extensive research takes readers into the philosophy and artistic ambitions of Chinese cuisine – and leaves them hungry for recipes”.  While the plot may have been predictable, the read was a pleasure for the majority of book group members.

Nicole Mones notes that in order to find great Chinese food, “start with the restaurant in your town that attracts the most Chinese diners, however small that population”.  Then “use your human skills to communicate that you are genuine about wanting food that has Chinese taste not American taste”.  She quotes Chef Henry Chang: “to get a good meal, be willing to try something new”.  While the meal may have been more to American taste than Chinese taste, several members of our group, myself included, were able to experience new foods or foods prepared differently.

Considering that, I believe we followed the counsel of Chef Chang.